Sunday, July 7, 2019

Ever Had Kittens!

I had been suspecting for awhile that Ever was pregnant. When I picked her up, I felt her nipples which I never had before (at first I thought just had a bunch of burrs stuck in her fur but eventually realized what it was), and she just started staying inside and sleeping all the time. Like ALL the time. But then a little over a week ago, my parents were over and we were petting Ever. I laid my hand on her belly and felt movement!

My mom felt it too, and then I even captured it on video. So from then on, we at least were SURE and I was able to start doing some research. Things I read said that if you can feel or see movement, they they are probably in the last 2 weeks of pregnancy. I was worried she would deliver while we were gone on vacation, so every day whenever we would leave the house and come back, we'd always check for kittens.

We made Ever a box with a cat bed and towels and I started putting her in there frequently so she would know it was there. I would also feel her tummy a LOT to make sure I could still feel them in there. She would tolerate it sometimes. Other times she would make me stop.

The morning of July 5th, I noticed just how clingy she was being. When I was eating breakfast, she laid down on the table and slept right next to me. When I sat down on the couch to work, she cuddled up on my legs, and then decided that wasn't good enough and she crawled up onto my chest and laid down. Which NEVER happens. She cuddles with Sutton, but usually not me.

That evening, I asked Sutton before he went to bed "If Ever goes into labor during the night, do you want me to wake you up?" He said YES! As I got ready for bed that night, she was following me everywhere so I picked her up and took her up to bed with me, which I don't often do.  She immediately started purring and would not stop. I turned out the lights about 1am. Adam came to bed about 1:30 and she moved from sleeping on my legs, to sleeping on his. Still purring.

At 3:06am, Adam heard a little squeaking that woke him up. All I heard was still the purring. Adam turned the flashlight on his phone on, and pointed it at Ever, who was on his legs. He couldn't quite see, so he got up and got a closer look. THERE WAS A BABY KITTEN!






Yep, Ever had given birth ON Adam's legs (there was a quilt between) without us even noticing. How does that even happen? And the kitten was relatively dry, which makes me think she had been out for awhile. Ever was just laying there like nothing, letting the kitten crawl around her looking for food. She didn't seem to be making it easy for the kitten to nurse, but she also wasn't leaving it.

We freaked out. A kitten was just born on our bed in the middle of the night without us noticing! As soon as we calmed down, I tried to feel Ever's belly. She didn't act like she was in labor anymore, but I also was weirded out that she would only have 1 kitten. I googled it and it said it can happen but it's very rare. So I finally was able to feel on her belly that there was at least one more. I could feel movement and a head.




I was so excited that I wasn't going to be sleeping, but Adam wanted to. So he went downstairs to sleep on the couch and put the baby gate up at the base of the stairs so that Riddick couldn't come up and mess with the kitten. Ever laid there for a minute after he left, then grabbed the kitten (which looked like she was trying to eat its head) and jumped off the bed. I ran after her yelling, but she just flew down the stairs and jumped the baby gate, all with the kitten in her mouth. I'm not sure if she was following Adam or trying to get to the box we'd made her.

So now we were down in the living room and she set the baby down outside the box, then jumped in the box and just looked at her baby. So I got a paper towel (cause I didn't know if I was supposed to touch it or not) and moved the baby into the box with her. She laid down and the kitten proceeded to try to nurse. Adam moved back upstairs to bed (to my side where there was no kitten birth mess haha), and I laid down on the couch.

After awhile, Ever started making noises and looking to me as if she needed something. I had no idea what she needed so I got her some food and water. She ate and drank a bunch. Then I laid back down. Suddenly, she was on the ottoman that was right next to the couch, meowing. I realized that she was leaking some sort of fluid from her bottom and then cleaning it all up after herself. She was also licking her bottom a ton, which I'd read is what they do during labor. So this all made me think that the next kitten was coming. She laid down on the ottoman and I felt her belly. I could feel her contractions and noticed she'd started pushing. Her back legs seemed almost paralyzed but the back half of her body would tense when she pushed, almost like she was pushing off with her legs but also trying not to use them. It was weird. She would do like 2 pushes, then stop for awhile. She moved back to her box to be with her baby, but it seemed like she wanted me near so I went and sat with her.

Ever was exhausted, so she would fall asleep between contractions, while the baby nursed. Then every few minutes, she would do the weird pushing, then go back to sleep. This went on for awhile, so I went back to the couch and laid down. I think I maybe dozed off for a bit, but then I heard a squeak and a bunch of licking.

I went over to the box and Ever was almost sitting folded in half, licking this dark black glob that was laying on her butt/tail area. I was grossed out, wondering if she'd just delivered the placenta or something, but then I realized that part of the glob was moving up and down like it was breathing, so I searched for a face and found one! It was a tiny black kitten, completely soaked because it had JUST come out. Ever was licking it a ton. And she kept licking it forever. I read that they have to lick off the nose and mouth so the babies can breathe. Kitty #2 was born around 5:45am, probably 3 hours after kitty #1!





I felt her belly again after she was done licking, and I didn't feel anymore movement. I thought she was probably only having these 2, but I wasn't sure. Since I'd told Sutton I would wake him up, I went into his room around 6 or a little after and told him we had kittens! He was so excited! He got right up without waking Ren and came out to see the 2 babies. We petted Ever and told her she was a good momma and looked at the babies for awhile. Then he said he wanted to go back to bed.

He went back in his room and shut the door. A few minutes later, I heard him talking to Ren. He had been too excited to go back to sleep and had woken Ren to tell him the good news! So I opened the door and had them both come out. We sat and watched Ever and her babies for awhile and Ren kept saying "It's a miracle! It's a miracle!"




Too bad our towel was black, you can hardly see the black one, but she's there:







Ever has really taken to being a mommy, which we were worried she wouldn't! She spends almost all her time in the box, but takes breaks to come out and lay on the cool kitchen floor sometimes. She lets the kittens crawl all over her, and tries to make her nipples more easily accessible to them by rolling on her back. We've caught her completely curled around them with her paws over them, all sleeping. She also constantly purrs when they're nursing, I'm assuming that's so the babies hear her since they can't see her. If she hears them cry, she immediately runs to them. If she sees that we're holding one, she grabs it away from us and takes it to the box. So we've decided not to hold them much for the next few days.

Yesterday afternoon, we decided on names for the kittens. We had always said that when she had her babies, we would probably keep 2. Well, she only had 2 so it worked out that we didn't have to choose which ones to keep! I have discovered that they are both girls. We decided on Luna for the black kitty. Luna = moon = night sky = black. Maple came about because when we were talking about names for the black kitty, we said Black Widow (from Avengers), that morphed into Willow (cause willow kinda sounds like widow), then that morphed into Maple (because we have a book about 2 sisters named Willow and Maple). We decided Maple would be perfect for the lighter kitty. Ren's name suggestions were Lungsie and Firekitten (since they were born near 4th of July I guess?). So we have decided that their middle names can both be Firekitten.

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UPDATE! I had to update this with a couple of the "newborn" photos I did of them. I couldn't resist! These first ones were taken when they were about 3 days old. Eyes still closed and they were NOT sleeping, it was hard to get them facing the right way + in focus + posed!






And then I did another set when they were almost a month old. Maple (left) loved being swaddled after she got used to it, and started to fall asleep! Luna hated it and struggled against it the whole time, so I tried to be quick. You can see that she got her paws out during her individual photos.




Sutton is 9!

We just got the BEST family photos taken, I will need to blog those at some point. But for now, I wanted to blog the ones she captured of our biggest guy just a few days before his birthday. Photo credit: Ashley Marker Photography.


It's hard to think about what to write about a 9 year old! Routines are on the outs and we are just having fun over here! Current favorites:
*Nintendo Switch
*Minecraft
*the color black
*Cocoa Puffs
*math
*swimming
*climbing
*driving his go kart
*reading
*Legos
*quesadillas, goldfish, citrus green tea, pepperoni pizza
*chocolate ice cream


Sutton got a Nintendo Switch for Christmas this past year, and since his iPad quit working, it was perfect timing. If it was up to him, he'd spend all his time on the Switch, watching YouTube. He watches videos about Minecraft, funny pet videos, and toy reviews.


We have been swimming a lot this summer! With a season pass to our local pool, we try to go as often as we can. Sutton does it all...diving board, slide, grabbing toys off the bottom of the deep end. We did swimming lessons at the beginning of the summer and his group learned 4 strokes, treading water, and diving. He was the best one in his group!


Daddy got a go kart for the boys a couple of weeks before Sutton's birthday. He has had a 4-wheeler for several years now that he loves, but Daddy decided to spoil him even further. Sutton LOVES it. He started wearing a track around our house from driving so much, so Daddy told him new routes he has to take so he doesn't ruin our grass. It was super exciting because last week, the wheat field by our house was finally harvested, so Sutton could drive the go kart out in the open field. That's now his favorite thing to do!


To celebrate Sutton's birthday, this year we decided to do a trip instead of a party. We drove up to Kansas City and met our friends Rachael and Rowan at Legoland. Sutton has been begging to go to Legoland for a long time now, so he was super pumped! While we were there, we stayed in a hotel, had birthday supper and birthday cake at Rachael's house, lots of play time with our friends, and we played at a park. On the way home, we made a stop in the Flint Hills so Daddy could film a property there. We found a gorgeous creek and spent a couple hours walking and hiking. Sutton said that was just as fun as Legoland!



Sutton likes summer, but is sad he doesn't get to go to school. He LOVES school. He's very social and likes seeing his friends every day, plus he's a great student so he loves schoolwork! His favorite is math - he brought home some math worksheets to do during the summer and couldn't wait to do them. He ended up finishing the school year with all A's (he had a few B's during the year - mostly for reading - but raised those grades)! We were so proud of him.


Sutton started a new school this past year, for 2nd grade. With Daddy quitting his teaching job and us not living in the district of his old school, we had to find a new one. We love it so much! Total small town vibes and great friends. Sutton's best friend is Axel who he met at school. Then we found out they only live a few blocks away from us. Other great friends are Eli and Hayden. We were so proud of how Sutton was really brave about going to a brand new school and making so many new friends. The move has been better than we could've imagined.


Even though it wasn't his strongest subject, Sutton has really developed a love of reading. His favorites are series of chapter books aimed at young readers. During the school year, he was always checking out books from the American Chillers series. This summer, we've been frequenting the library and he's gotten into Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Big Nate, and we just found a new series called Timmy Failure. His ultimate favorite was Dog Man for awhile, which are written in a comic book style. He also loves to read non-fiction books about animals or weather. His current favorite is to find books about natural disasters like tornadoes, floods, tsunamis, and volcanoes.


Sutton LOVES animals, especially cats! On August 1st, we found a kitten in our yard, who we named Ever and became super attached to. Sutton loves her and she loves him best! She puts up with the rest of us to an extent, but she really is his kitty. Ever just had kittens yesterday (post to come!) and both boys are smitten. Sutton says he either wants to be a vet or 'someone who helps people like a pastor' when he grows up.


Sutton and Ren are the best of buddies. They play together all the time and I just can't imagine them not having each other! But with any brotherly relationship, they fight constantly. It's more arguing than fighting. And it's always over the silliest things that really don't matter. Sutton always wants to be right and be in charge, and obviously that's not gonna fly with little bro, who wants things to go his way. Still, they share a love of Minecraft, go-karting, wrestling, playing in the foam pit, playing 'the bad guy game' and 'the puppy game' and so many more things. I just love having two boys and am excited to see how their relationship grows as they grow.


Sutton's favorite restaurants are Chili's (chips + salsa, pepperoni pizza, mashed potatoes), Subway (turkey, cheese, mayo on wheat), Taco Tico (chicken quesadillas), Pizza Hut (pepperoni pizza). He also loves chocolate shakes from Braums.


Our current routine : the boys share a room so they always get up at the same time. Lately it's been anywhere between 7 and 9am. We have just recently told them no electronics or TV til we are up. So they play or draw or do Legos until we're up. Then Ren goes to feed the animals while I make breakfast. Sutton either has Cocoa Puffs or toast with peanut butter. After breakfast, I usually need to work so they watch TV or iPad/Switch for awhile. After they've had a couple hours of that, I make them go play outside or in their rooms or downstairs. Sometimes this goes really well, sometimes they just argue and I get super annoyed. We usually have sandwiches for lunch if we're home, or we'll grab food on-the-go if we're not. We try to go swimming as much as we can and we fit in parks around errands. Daddy is usually gone all day on shoots, which leaves me home with the boys most of the day. Then I go out and shoot in the evenings and Daddy stays home with the boys and feeds them supper. They go to bed around 8 or 9...sometimes later since it's summer. We brush teeth, read a devotional, pray, and then they're supposed to go to sleep but we usually hear them laughing and talking long after we shut the door.


Sutton's personality is interesting and we've been through many difficult and good seasons. He is a first-born, rule-follower, needs to be in control of a situation type of person. I am not that way. I'm constantly telling him to "chill out" or "just let it go" or "it's not that big of a deal." He picks and picks at Ren and doesn't give him any room to be wrong. He's always saying "if you don't do it my way, I'm not going to play with you" then Ren cries and life is over.

At the same time, he has the kindest, sweetest heart. He is always writing/drawing me notes telling me I'm the best mom ever. He loves to tell me how skinny I am (hahah) and he tries (TRIES) to make other people feel good by giving them compliments. He loves Jesus - I recently explained what seminary is to him and he thought that sounded amazing. He's not a crazy, bouncing off the wall, rough and tumble type of kid. Though he has his moments of that too. He cries pretty frequently and talks about all kinds of deep things! I'm so glad he's my kid!


We just had his 9-year-old well child check. He weighs 73 pounds (80th percentile) and is 55 inches tall (83rd percentile).


Sutton enjoys going new places and meeting new people. We signed the boys up for VBS at a church they'd never been to and with no one they knew. Sutton LOVED it and was sad when it was over! He also gets super excited to perform, like the performance at the end of that VBS. He also had a Christmas program and a Spring program at school that he was very excited for but also nervous!


He prefers wearing athletic shorts or pants and t-shirts. He'll wear jeans if I ask him to but doesn't love it. He does like hoodies and sometimes wears a ballcap. He got Nike shoes for the first time this year and was very excited. That was like the first time that a brand has mattered to him, so that was interesting. I get it, but we're also trying to make sure those things aren't too important to him.


The best words I can think of to describe Sutton are: kind, compassionate, loving, smart, hard-headed, and all-boy. We are head over heels for this young man and excited to see what his 10th year brings!

Friday, June 28, 2019

Sutton's Birthday Video

We had family photos taken last week, so once I get those back from our photographer, I will post Sutton's 9th birthday photos. But we did his video today, so here's that!



How old are you? Nine
What's your favorite color? Black
What's your favorite toy? Nintendo Switch
What's your favorite fruit? Bananas and grapes
What's your favorite movie? Toy Story and Star Wars
What's your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Pizza
What's your favorite outfit? Red and black short sleeve athletic shirt, black long sleeve with thumb holes
What's your favorite game to play? Minecraft
What's your favorite snack? Pizza and goldfish
What's your favorite animal? Cats and dogs, Ever!
What's your favorite song? Cold as Ice by Blacklite District
What's your favorite book? Dog Man, Boy In Number 4, Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Big Nate
Who's your best friend? Axel
What's your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Cocoa Puffs
What's your favorite thing to do outside? Driving the go kart.
What's your favorite drink? Green citrus tea
What's your favorite holiday? Christmas
What do you like to take to bed at night? My pillow!
What do you want to be when you grow up? Pastor or missionary. Or a vet. Someone who helps people.
What do you want for dinner tonight? Chili's chips and salsa. And pizza from Chili's.
What's your favorite thing to do with your brother? A lot of things...playing games.

DANCE MOOOOOOOOVESSSS!!!!!

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

Sutton's Last Day of 2nd Grade

Sutton's last day of second grade never happened!! This spring, we had a bunch of rain, way more than usual, and our little town is prone to flooding. The last day of school was canceled because the school was underwater! Or at least the road going past it. We got some huge rain puddles at our place, so the boys got swim trunks on and had a blast running and playing in the puddles.

Last day of school photos that are unlike any others! I made him stop playing for just a few poses.


And of course, we have to do the first day/last day comparisons!



And now for all the fun photos!